Single, mature men can take action to make themselves more attractive to the opposite sex and lift themselves out of “all black” depression about their situation, says a leading New Zealand dating coach and matchmaker.
Local New Zealand matchmaker, Matchcompany.co.nz, have organised Christmas functions which include a special provision for those mature men seeking a Christmas ‘pick-me-up’.
The Matchcompany Wellington Christmas function is at the Wellesley Boutique Hotel on Saturday, 12 December (6pm – 9pm).
“It can be a very tough time for a lot of single people at Christmas, but there are certainly some things they can do to
get their act together and be positive,” says Matchcompany director Rosie Bowie.
Matchcompany’s client base is largely mature singles, the Christmas parties and seminars run by the agencies intended to help upskill those singles who struggle to develop their confidence in developing new relationships.
“Being positive is probably the single most important thing any can do, but it is also easier said than done.”
So what are some of the key things any single person – male or female – can do?
“Many singles are sad and lonely, but the causes behind their issues can be infinately varied, ranging from
sadness over the loss of a spouse to bitterness over a breakup.
“There are other issues too though such as loss of confidence, boredom, abuse issues, sex and any other number
issues.”
However some of the things that are suggested for singles who are on their own include:
1. Find a new activity. Do something new and challenging to get yourself out of any rut and take your mind off your distractions or disappointments.
2. Learn a language. Challenging yourself intellectually will help you keep your mind sharp, stimulate yourself and create an opportunity to meet others. It doesn’t have to be a language, it may be learning Bridge, Golf or something else but work on something stimulating.
3. Be thankful. Despite how bad you may think things are there are also reasons why you need to both be thankful and appreciate the good things in life. So give some thanks every day and be aware of the good things.
4. Have a mentor. Have a good friend you can talk to who will help you personally. Someone you can trust who will be truthful and help you in your personal growth and development. We need mentors in our personal as well as our business lives.
About Matchcompany.co.nz: Matchcompany is New Zealand’s leading dating coaching and matchmaking company, providing seminars and matchmaking services throughout New Zealand. Single mature men are also welcome to seek advice on New Zealand dating advice and introductions from the agency at any time.
Contact Matchcompany at rb@matchcompany.co.nz or at www.matchcompany.co.nz
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